Blog 4
My dad hated that my sister and I mainly spoke
Portuguese while growing up, which we spoke especially during the time spent
with our grandparents. He feared it would single us out and make us targets to
harassment like what happened to him. When my dad immigrated here from
Portugal, he was singled out and tortured by his peers and his elders for not
speaking English properly. He would be teased and picked on in classes. It
brought him a lot of shame and embarrassment when he stood out because of his
different mother tongue and his inability to spak without an accent. My dad
would always tell us to speak English with him, even though we spoke Portuguese
to everyone else at home. Eventually the idea of my sister and I speaking
Portuguese became more acceptable to him when he realized that it had no effect
on our ability to speak English. Also, being able to communicate with my entire
family was important.
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